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Dr Anne Henderson is a Consultant Gynaecologist and one of a select group of British Menopause Society accredited Specialists in the UK. |
Your vulva deserves care that goes beyond the occasional treat. Hydration, comfort and protection aren’t luxuries. They’re part of your everyday wellbeing. Whether you’re navigating menopause, recovering postpartum or simply want to feel more at ease in your body, intimate moisturisers can be a game-changer.
The question is not should you use one but which kind. Many think you have to pick between water-based or oil-based. The truth is that both bring unique benefits, and when used together they can transform your comfort and pleasure.
Oil Based Intimate Moisturisers – Deep Nourishment That Lasts
Oil-based formulas are the heavy hitters when it comes to long lasting nourishment. They create a protective layer that locks in deep moisture, supporting the key skin's hydration barrier and soothing irritation. Think of them like a soft layer of comfort and protection for this delicate area.
They’re ideal for daily comfort, easing external dryness and offering a sensorial, soothing moment of care. An oil-based moisturiser works beautifully for daily skin protection, post-shower hydration or as part of a wind-down routine at the end of the day.
One important note is that oil based products are not compatible with latex condoms, so they may be better suited for external care rather than penetrative sex with condoms - but can still be safe for women who do not require barrier contraception.
Water Based Intimate Moisturisers – Fresh Comfort for the Moment
Lightweight, fresh and designed to feel like your body’s own natural lubrication, water-based moisturisers are perfect for intimacy. They work with condoms and toys, making them a versatile choice for partnered or solo play.
Because they absorb more quickly, they may need reapplying sooner than oil-based options, but they shine when you want instant glide, hydration and comfort without any residue.
They’re also excellent for relieving vaginal dryness and discomfort during sex play, offering a natural feel that keeps you focused on pleasure - not friction.
The Best of Both – Your Two Step Intimate Ritual
Here is where the magic happens. You don’t have to choose. Combining both gives you the benefits of instant hydration and lasting nourishment.
Step one: Before intimacy, use a water based moisturiser for smooth, condom safe glide. This keeps you comfortable in the moment, whether solo or with a partner.
Step two: Afterwards or as part of your nightly routine, apply an oil-based moisturiser to the vulva and surrounding skin. This locks in moisture, soothes any post-play sensitivity and helps maintain healthy, resilient skin.
Making this a ritual is more than just functional. It’s a way to check in with your body. Take a few extra minutes for gentle massage, slow breathing or simply appreciating the power of caring for yourself without rush or distraction. Water-based for pleasure and oil-based for protection work in harmony to keep you feeling comfortable, confident and connected.
Why NAYDAYA’s Hydration Set Works – Science Meets Sensuality
Victory Oil
Formulated with collagen-boosting pomegranate oil and soothing mango butter, Victory Oil is designed to treat external vaginal dryness, restore elasticity and bring lasting comfort to intimate skin. Almond, castor, grapeseed and coconut oils work with Vitamin E to reduce inflammation, support healing and protect against dryness, all while feeling indulgent to use.
Daily application helps prevent irritation and keeps your vulva feeling soft, supple and cared for.
Victory Glide
This pH balanced, 100% water-based serum was created with leading gynaecologists to offer long-lasting lubrication during intimacy and daily hydration when you need it most. It’s infused with hyaluronic acid for deep moisture retention and prebiotics to support a healthy vaginal pH. Fragrance-free and condom safe, it delivers instant comfort and glide while protecting your intimate health, through every life stage.
Individually, each product meets a specific need. Together, they create a complete care system, one for in the moment hydration and one for lasting nourishment.
Pleasure and Comfort Without Compromise
You don’t have to decide between water-based or oil-based. Both have their place in your intimate care routine and both can help you feel more at ease, more connected and more confident in your body.
With a simple ritual that uses each at the right moment, you can enjoy the best of both worlds, comfort and pleasure, instant relief and lasting care.
Your vulva deserves nothing less.
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